Thursday, 20 June 2013

My mother

I'm so sorry I've been blogging so much recently. It's just, I'm new to all of this and  I have so many ideas that I need to write about and so now I'm going to write about the most important human being in my life. My mother. I'm sure this s a topic we can all relate to but I think at times we forget the importance of our mothers. Pause for a second. Picture your life. Now, take your mother out of it. How does it feel? Empty? I thought so.
Now, think back to yesterday, last week, or whenever when you  spoke to her in a harsh tone or a loud voice. Why did you do it? Is it because she doesn't "get you."? Is it because she just doesn't understand? It it because you don't think you need to answer to her? Let me tell you, your mother, the one who carried you in her stomach for 9 whole months, she is the woman that prayed to have you. She is the woman who stayed up with you all night because you had a fever. She is the only reason, along with the grace of Allah SWT that you are here. Se is the reason your're here, reading this , But you think you can speak to her in a disrespectful way. She understands you ore than you understand yourself and just think about how much pain she must go through every time you raise your voice at her. She gave you everything and this is what happens.
Your mother, like you, was once young. She was beautiful, she is still beautiful and you should remind her of that every day. She knows exactly what you went through because she went through the same and she wants nothing but the absolute best for you. I know that my mother is the most beautiful woman on earth to me and she has managed to balance work and having a home so well and I can only applaud her on this. She's my best friend, the one I tell everything to and without her I don't know where I'd be. Islam teaches that Jannah is beneath The feet of a mother and I cannot begin to explain the gravity that this concept holds. Love your parents for the sake of Allah and may He grant all our parents the highest rank in Jannah as they have done so well in raising us and taking care of us.
Ameen.
Now go to your mother, make her smile, give her a hug and know that she loves you more than life itself and keep in mind all the sacrifices she has made next time you think about raising your voice at her. 

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